I’m amazed at how often a client denies being angry. I stopped using that big bad word many years ago. Instead I ask if they are Irritated, Frustrated or Annoyed. The difference in their reactions is remarkable. The truth is all these words come under the Anger Family Umbrella. They are related like first or …
No More Negative Thinking… No Way! It’s impossible to ban negative thoughts. They will find their way in whether you like it or not. Accepting this reality is the first step towards “Less” negative thinking. As a Licensed Counselor, Business and Career Coach, I help my clients refocus on the bigger picture and positives! …
When you don’t like yourself you can’t enjoy your success! You don’t see any light because you are under a dark cloud. Your negative thoughts are dictators directing you away from positive experiences. Liking your self starts with stopping your mind when it wanders into dangerous waters. Successful people can be hard on themselves. When …
What is the difference between an emotion and a feeling? People confuse them all the time. For years I thought they were basically the same thing. Now I know they aren’t. In fact the differences are quite significant and important to understand. Emotions equal body sensations and thoughts. They are an intense reaction to an …
Many Professionals and Business Owners spend hundreds of dollars on workshops and seminars. Incredible amounts of “good” information are consumed at conferences. What happens when you get back to your private practice or business? Do you implement what you learned? Why do I believe that Knowing What To Do Is The Easy Part? Because it …
You have seen “Schedule A Free Consultation Today!” or something similar. Guess where you can find it? That’s right, it is on the home page of MargoGeller.com! This offer is important for so many reasons. The main reason is to make it easy for someone to contact and connect with you. As a Licensed Counselor …
It’s so easy to stress out when you approach a fork in the road. You want to know what the right choice is. You don’t want to worry that you made the wrong decision. I believe most decisions are right “enough!” You make it work and you continue to learn about your decision making …
Your personality is powerful! It impacts your friendships, financial decisions, satisfaction and success! All personalities have their challenges. In a relationship you need to adjust your behavior to balance the other person’s personality type. It is extremely important. Imagine connecting to you’re loving energy with someone who totally frustrates you? Yep, it’s hard to imagine. …
When you make a U-turn you probably aren’t happy about it. How could you have made such a stupid mistake? In a second something can change which forces a new decision or direction. No matter how much you prepare, it is hard to know what something will be like till you get there. One example …
How do you know if you are ready to make a change? From my professional and personal experience, I know that making a change is something you don’t do the first, second or even third time you think about it. It usually takes months of thinking and feeling frustrated before you are ready to take …
As a Licensed Counselor and Business Coach, I continually hear my clients comparing themselves to others. Franklin Roosevelt wrote that Comparison is the Thief of Joy. Many others have written and talked about why comparing is not a good thing. Seems like Rule #1 on How to Be Happier is to “Stop Comparing Yourself …
Top 5 Reasons Why You Should Read This Book: Learn how to: Create a more effective way to get clients Make more money by maximizing your business development budget Have time to focus more on what makes you happy and what you love to do Become a master networker Create more enjoyment in your work …
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