Dating Advice

Waiting, Worrying and Working With Uncertainty

You are forced to wait for an answer you want to know now!  There is nothing you can do to speed up the process.  All you can do is wait and see what happens.  It’s easy to start worrying.  You wait for a potential prospect or employer to get back to you.  You wait when dating …

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Introverts Aren’t Good At Networking.  Not True.  Check out Chapter 7!

 “I’m not outgoing.  I hate parties.  I can’t stand chit chat.”  I hear this quite often.  It’s one of the “But Margo…” statements in my book.  Many people think you can’t be good at networking unless you are an extrovert.  This is absolutely not true.   What they want me to know is they won’t …

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Don’t Start Searching till You Know What You Want and Why!

Do you know what you want or what would make you happier?  Sounds like a simple question but for most it isn’t.  There are many possibilities to consider.  It’s important to be specific.  It’s especially hard to know when you are down on yourself or depressed.  Nothing will feel quite right.   When looking for a new job …

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How to Handle an Unexpected Rejection when Interviewing and Dating

I bet this has happened to you.  A potential client, employer, friend, boy or girlfriend seems interested in you!  You feel great.  Excitement and adrenaline are in abundance.  It’s tempting to project a positive outcome.  Sometimes this occurs and other times it doesn’t.  When it doesn’t you are upset.  Naturally! It’s not uncommon for someone to …

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Why You Sabotage Yourself and Several Ways to Stop

Are you your own worst enemy?  If so, I bet you are self sabotaging almost every day.  This is not what you want to be doing because it feels bad.  It’s impossible to build a satisfying relationship if you don’t stop sabotaging yourself.  It makes dating more difficult.  Let me help you stop hitting your …

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I’m A Dating Coach, Not A Matchmaker!

Dating Coaching is NOT Matchmaking!  Frequently I tell someone I’m a Dating Coach and they think I’m a matchmaker.  Yesterday it happened and I knew I needed to explain the difference.  In case you didn’t read my last blog, I’m enthusiastically entering into Dating Coaching.   It came about organically (see last paragraph) which I believe …

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