Few people do Online Dating for a short period of time. Most spend hours and hours searching. It can take months and even years to find the right fit. What can you do to stop wasting time and find your person faster! First keep reading! I have some really good suggestions! My clients are very busy …
Online Dating: A Matter of Time and It Takes Time. Maximize Your Time by… Read More »
Dating Coaching is NOT Matchmaking! Frequently I tell someone I’m a Dating Coach and they think I’m a matchmaker. Yesterday it happened and I knew I needed to explain the difference. In case you didn’t read my last blog, I’m enthusiastically entering into Dating Coaching. It came about organically (see last paragraph) which I believe …
News Alert! In addition to Business and Career Coaching I am doing Dating Coaching! I fell into dating coaching when I started working with clients in their 20’s and 30’s. They hired me to help them change careers or jobs. Many were single and also feeling discouraged about dating. Dating can be challenging. It’s …
Are You Emotionally Attractive? Why it’s important. Become more by… Read More »
When someone says they are unhappy why don’t they do something about it? As their friend you offer suggestions which seem to fall on deaf ears. Over time you get frustrated and even angry. You feel helpless to influence them and possibly worried at the same time. Not doing something doesn’t make sense. What …
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Are bad feelings necessary for a better life? I wish it wasn’t true and I’m also glad it is. If you always felt fine you wouldn’t be motivated to have more of what makes you happy. It’s a good thing that it’s impossible to feel good all the time. Pain leads to Gain! What I’m …
My Life Became A Lot Better When… Hint: That’s not it! Read More »
You are excited about a new opportunity. Your life is going to be so much better. Then down the road you realize this too isn’t the right fit. It’s hard to acknowledge that you are unhappy. How do you handle this stressful situation? What will make it easier? You wish you could change the way …
When You Wish Something Wasn’t True…But It Is. What Do You Do? Read More »
Your feelings are hurt by someone you care about. You wonder if you should say something or if it will somehow make things worse. When done the right way there is no downside. It’s important that they know in order to keep enjoying your relationship. I’ve learned that when I don’t speak up I’m …
Why You Want To Tell Someone They Hurt You and How To Do It Read More »
Being Courageous means doing something you are afraid will hurt you in some way. Before your bravery kicks in you go back and forth between I want to and no I don’t. Don’t fret if this goes on for a while. Sometimes that’s necessary for finally doing it with confidence and conviction. You have opportunities …
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Deciding who to work for or date is a big deal. You know how important it is to feel like you and the other person are a good fit. In my work as a Business and Life Coach I am constantly emphasizing the importance of relationship selection and Not Ignoring The Red Flags! Why Do You …
When you’re really down or discouraged it’s tempting to feel sorry for yourself. You believe that nobody can fully understand what you are going through. If you shut down in self pity I can tell you first hand that you will feel worse. Getting out of a negative emotional place is not easy but …
Everyone has something—something that they don’t like but tolerate. What’s yours? Are you ready to do something about it? Are you okay with being a little uncomfortable? If you put up with something, you tolerate or accept it, even though you find it unpleasant or unsatisfactory. Your partner or colleague is constantly correcting or criticizing …
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Where do I begin? Such a common statement and now I get it. Did my career start with having a lemonade stand, selling girl scout cookies, teaching tennis lessons or did it start with my first “real” job? I believe my childhood interests and successes played a big part in creating a satisfying career. …
My Career Story: The Queen of Re-Invention and Determination! Read More »